
The Cast of "Everybody Loves Raymond"
Everybody Loves Raymond. Well, maybe not everybody, but I do. I am unashamed to admit that I enjoy the cheesy sitcom as much as the next one. Anyone who has watched more than 5 minutes of the show knows that Ray is an incompetent goofball and his wife is the smart, responsible woman who has to take care of everything because her “idiot” husband can’t handle it. In the 1990’s and foreword there has been an interesting trend in television that has been a response to the culture. As a result of the feminist movement of the 1960’s, Hollywood has produced shows and movies that portray and strong, independent, confident woman, and a fool of a man (Raymond, Tool Time, King of Queens, Roseanne, Simpsons). The movement has been very strong in coming out against the chauvinistic, “male” society of the past, but while they claim to have moved toward an egalitarian society, in many ways, they have just moved to the other extreme. They have not moved from portraying men as strong and women as weak and helpless to men and woman as intelligent equals, the mentality has done a complete 180, and now the women are strong and intelligent and the fellas are nimrods.
This is also the case in many families and many churches. Let me be the first to say that I am not here to fight the complimentarian fight. That being said, I do not think this issue is a complimentarian/egalitarian divided issue. There are many churches, who would consider themselves complimentarian on paper, but in practice they are not lead by men, or led equally by men and women, but the women are running the show. Why is this the case? I don’t know, maybe men have gotten lazy, maybe women in our churches have been fighting hard for leadership and men have just given up. Either way, the situation of old, and the new deal, both are wrong. We do not need to be a society and a church in which women sit silently and “land owning” men rule the world. On the other hand, this doesn’t need to be an “Everybody Loves Raymond” era, where our women run the workplace, church and home, while men go golfing and watch the game. If we are to live in light of the inaugurated Kingdom of God, we will understand the reality of new creation. Galatians 3:27-29 says,
“For as many of you as were baptized into Christ have put on Christ. There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. And if you are Christ’s, then you are Abraham’s offspring, heirs according to promise.”
We are all called to work together to further the Kingdom, there is no male, or female. While we can debate certain roles in the church or in the home, the truth is that many churches and homes may read about biblical “manhood and womanhood,” but they aren’t practicing it.
Tim Keller on Gender Roles – Former EM post
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